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                              AdobeStock ARE YOU A PROACTIVE OR REACTIVE PERSON? A lot of people, if not everyone, will encounter some form of challenge in life. Oftentimes many will choose not to address the issue, while others might do so from an irrational approach. However, problems only compound if a person allow their emotions to take control of their decision-making process. Negative and emotional responses such as anxiety, depression, withdrawal, fear, denial, anger, procrastination, etc. can do more harm than good. Kristenson (2022) suggests that the way “ we choose to “master the moment” can make the difference between proactive versus reactive” solutions. When it comes to tackling life’s demands people tend to fall into one of two categories when addressing the demands of their lives: proactive or reactive. Knowing that it’s healthier to exercise and lower your risk of a heart attack, but wait...

  And not only this, but we also exult in our tribulations, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance; and perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope;  Romans 5:3-4 (NIV)   What traits would you say you need to improve? How would you like to improve them and why?   BREAKING BAD HABITS IMPROVES CHARACTER Many of us consider things about ourselves that we would like changed; whether it be the way we look, what we do, or how we live. However, few of us consider our behaviors as topics for change; that is, until someone else challenges us about them. Mutiwaseka suggests that changing one’s habits requires that he or she “understa nd what it is, how it works, and how to break it ”. Although some habits are good, other behaviors might be unproductive, disruptive, destructive or unhealthy and are considered bad habits. If you don’t want negative influences to “ dictate your life,” then you have to change in healthier or more productive...